💟: what are three traits that my muse looks for in a partner?
J’hasi’s never ‘looked for’ a partner in his life. However, there are a few traits (that I’ve noticed) that he tends to gravitate to initially, and certain ones that tend to make him stick around. Romantic partners would likely be the same thing, as for J’hasi, the line between friendship and romance is a mess of ‘wtf is the difference aside from certain activities are done with this one and not that one?’. Not to say that he’s likely to initiate romantic whatever with anyone he becomes friends with, but at at this point and time, he can’t tell the difference between friendship and romance because he hasn’t experienced romantic attraction yet (whether he will, I don’t know).
Now, with that huge fucking disclaimer overwith: traits.
J’hasi likes red. For whatever reason, I’ve noticed that the people he tends to become close with have a decent amount of red on them, whether it be clothes, hair, feathers, scales, etc. Not sure if this is something that actually draws him to a person or not (or if I just like red in my character designs lmao), but it’s happened enough for there to be a potential trait.
There’s the typical stuff like he tends to prefer hanging around Dunmer/Argonians, people who speak Dunmeris/Jel, he’s interested in mages, but holy hell if you are nice to him and no seemingly ulterior motive in sight, he’s gonna be interested and poke around a little more. This is sort of a ‘yeah ok, anyone would be like that’ but with how J’hasi is, it’s a Big Deal. People aren’t just nice to him out of the blue.
He typically gets suspicious, but when the person doesn’t seem to have malicious intent behind it (even if it’s just giving him directions, something that wouldn’t directly benefit them in any way), it makes him a lot friendlier, probably a little too much so for his own comfort (because he’s got a big heart, and is probably a little too curious and friendly for his own good). It’s also how he’s gotten hurt so many times before in the past.
He likes nice hair too. What qualifies as ‘nice’, I haven’t been able to pin down a specific quality yet.
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💝: what would my muse consider a “perfect gift”?
Answered! But I’ll go into some specifics (not that this post isn’t already long enough lmao).
I mentioned that clothes, food, tools, practical stuff that he can use are big ‘yes, good’ gifts for him. Tasty foods, either stuff he knows he likes from Morrowind or Black Marsh (certain types of sweetfish, sujamma, etc), or new stuff that he’s never tried before (and thus are a new experience) are big hits. In Skyrim, any sort of clothing that’s warm is a Big Deal, especially if it’s colors he prefers wearing or likes (reds, browns, etc). Clothes in general are good, so long as they are a little bigger than what he’d actually wear (for some reason he’s never really worn clothes that properly fit in his life, so if it isn’t a little big on him he thinks it’s ‘too small’). Even tools or weapons are good choices, provided he can use them, and are of good quality. Hunting knives are good, since he’s lost a fair few over the years from fights or hunts, as are supplies such as bandages, salves, etc.
However, a gift he’d be hesitant about using is a spear, as his current spear is a gift he got from his late friend Jeer-rah, a gift he promised to always keep with him, and has almost been like a surrogate to Jeer’s lack of presence in the world of the living.
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❥: what is my muse’s ideal date?
Answered! But again, I’ll go into a little more specifics/examples/etc.
Cuddletimes are really good. And swimming. FOOD! Quiet alone time with the person so he can be open with them and invade their personal space and yeah he’s a little bit of an attention seeker with people he’s close with what d’you expect the last time he got a hug from someone before coming to Skyrim was like 30 years ago c’mon man;;;
He really misses the cuddlesessions with Maarzi and Jeer from way back when, beds seemed cold and empty for the longest time after they’d poofed from the world.