maarzi asks – vvardenfellcat

💑 What are my muse’s requirements for a potential partner?; 👍 Does my muse prefer to be asked on a date, or would they rather do the asking?; 💔 What was my muse’s first heartbreak?

💑 What are my muse’s requirements for a potential partner?

J’hasi’s requirements would be pretty simple: friend? Yes? Okay, you probably fit the requirements already. He’d really only fall for someone he’s close with in the first place so really there isn’t any other way to go.

Maarzi’s requirements aren’t quite as intensive, depending on if this is one night thing, or a fun sort of dating thing because why not. You cute? Attractive? A consenting adult? Ayyy let’s go have some fun!

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👍 Does my muse prefer to be asked on a date, or would they rather do the asking?

Friend dates work either way, J’hasi’s not too fussed. A romantic sort of date it depends on the state their relationship at that point in time. If it’s before the partner knows that he’s got them heart feels for them, he’d never ask them out for a romantic sort of date, but a friend date yeah (even though the only difference between them for him is the level of intimacy tbh). Being asked would probably make him explode (friend date or otherwise, TIME SPENT WITH?? YES PLS).

If he and his partner already know well enough about the romantic aspects of their relationship, it works out either way, but it’s worth noting that being asked makes him grin like an idiot.

Maarzi’s fine either way, though the way she asks is more of huge amounts of flirting prior to actually asking the ~~victim~~ partner out.

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💔 What was my muse’s first heartbreak?

Maarzi messed around with a certain pretty lady that came around her parent’s shop every so often, and while her feelings developed past a purely fun, physical one, the other party’s did not. She was pretty young at the time, so it made her hesitate towards any sort of serious relationship attempts, and when she finally did make a serious relationship attempt, it came off as solely being interested in a fun fling rather than romance (which eventually changed, thankfully, leaving her with a partner she grew old with and died happy ;w;).

(NSFW Meme) M A G I C

M = Motivation (What turns them on, gets them going)

Smooches on the neck/throat area and down gets J’hasi really flustered. The one time that it happened he quickly stopped it.

Maarzi has a thing for teasing and banter with lots of foreplay and smooches. Prefers ladies and really likes temperature/Restoration play (skilled mages are A++++ for this). Emotional intimacy plays a big part too, and she’s a bit of a romantic when it comes to certain partners.

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A = Aftercare (What they’re like after sex)

Maarzi is super happy and cuddly, and almost seems like she’s drunk or sleepy. Lots of smooches usually occur, and she’ll cuddle with her partner to steal all available heat from their body. Partners that aren’t really into that sort of thing get a little bit of cuddling after, then she’ll just chill next to them and maybe nap or chitchat a little.

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G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc)

J’hasi’s answered here!

Maarzi is very playful, following the motto of ‘if you can’t laugh with your partner while doin’ it, it’s probably gonna suck’. Sex is supposed to be fun, and if you’re serious the whole time it gets pretty boring in her opinion. Whether she’s cracking jokes, poking or prodding or tickling her bedmate, or even whispering bad puns into their ear at just the ~~right~~ wrong moment, anyone with a good sense of humor is going to be laughing along with her. Usually her way of initiating has to do with some sort of humorous act or a joke that steps over the boundary from teasing to sexytimes.

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I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect…)

J’hasi’s answered here!

If her partner’s a one-night-stand, then it depends on what they want out of it. If they’re into intimacy, she’ll do it, otherwise she’ll hold off on it. With those she’s close with she’s intimate in a lot of things she does with them, not always necessarily sex (least if that’s part of their relationship). Cuddles, smooches, even helping with grooming is something she frequently does with those she’s close with as per their comfort levels and relationship. When she hooks up with Riheh, she is the definition of lovesick romantic, and Riheh can’t really find it in herself to complain.

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C = Cum (Anything to do with cum basically… I’m a disgusting person)

Maarzi is not a fan in the least. It’s gross and tastes awful and she doesn’t want that shit on her or in her. She’ll do oral/penetrative acts so long as her partner agrees to pull out, and if it gets on her skin it’s…okay-ish, but not anywhere near her face.

G, I, N

G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc)

While he initially started out super serious (and nervous as hell), J’hasi’s chilled out a little and usually is more silly when doing anything remotely akin to making love. Maarzi’s rule for such things is that, if you can’t laugh with your partner while doin’ the do, it’s probably going to suck, so you can tell where that behavior/mindset came from.

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I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect…)

Similar to above, J’hasi with any sort of intimacy is a Big Deal™

and something he normally feels super vulnerable doing (and thus it’s SUPER SCARY), so initially it was something very serious. He was a little intense and on edge doing it initially, but after Maarzi didn’t stab him in the back after given his trust, he chilled out and is super sweet during those moments instead. Prior to that, the only people J’hasi felt he could allow himself to be vulnerable was Jeer and Sees, as Shadows frequently ridiculed him for being ‘weak’ when he showed vulnerability around him.

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N = NO (Something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

Maarzi doesn’t do the typical do with partners that have barbs downstairs. She’s not into pain like that. It’s not often that this situation comes up, but there has been occasion or two that it has. There’s always fun alternatives that don’t include not-fun pain on her end.

8, 10, and 14

8:Who was your muse’s first crush?

There was this cute Khajiit girl that Maarzi had feelings for when she was still pretty young yet. At the time she didn’t really know why out of all her friends she felt that weird tingling excitement in her stomach and thought of this one friend in particular so much, and it was something she didn’t realize was a crush until she was much older. Said friend had moved away by then, but it’s still a fond memory Maarzi has of her childhood.

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10:Most problematic thing your muse has ever done?

Inadvertently destroying an entire culture’s basis of faith, destabilizing the region religiously and politically (and by extent, temporarily tightening the Empire’s hold on them), and setting them up for a natural disaster that made most of their homeland damn near uninhabitable and killed thousands of people. But hey, Azura gets her cult following back from false gods, so it’s cool right?

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14:What is your muse’s deadly sin?

It took me a bit to understand this question, so according to here: wrath. This dummy can hold a grudge and don’t even get me started on his temper. Plus the whole, y’know, self…everything thing. J’hasi’s grudge against Azura is something that will probably last as long as he does tbh.

3 and 17

3. Tell us about a time they were rejected.

Maarzi tried asking out her friend Riheh several times, usually as sort-of-a-joke-but-sort-of-serious thing. The first few times were more of a startled ‘wtf no’ sort of response, usually with Riheh throwing whatever she had in her hands at her (flowers, papers, etc). Later on it was more of an amused no, with little else happening aside from resuming what they were doing/talking about.

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17. What sort of characteristics or quirks draw them to someone?

J’hasi tends to gravitate towards people that can handle themselves and express kindness towards others, especially towards those less fortunate than themselves. Those who speak Jel/Dunmeris, Argonians, Dunmer, and most magic-users are usually given more interest initially, but unless there’s something to hold his attention, it won’t linger long.