G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc)
While he initially started out super serious (and nervous as hell), J’hasi’s chilled out a little and usually is more silly when doing anything remotely akin to making love. Maarzi’s rule for such things is that, if you can’t laugh with your partner while doin’ the do, it’s probably going to suck, so you can tell where that behavior/mindset came from.
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I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect…)
Similar to above, J’hasi with any sort of intimacy is a Big Deal™
and something he normally feels super vulnerable doing (and thus it’s SUPER SCARY), so initially it was something very serious. He was a little intense and on edge doing it initially, but after Maarzi didn’t stab him in the back after given his trust, he chilled out and is super sweet during those moments instead. Prior to that, the only people J’hasi felt he could allow himself to be vulnerable was Jeer and Sees, as Shadows frequently ridiculed him for being ‘weak’ when he showed vulnerability around him.
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N = NO (Something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)
Maarzi doesn’t do the typical do with partners that have barbs downstairs. She’s not into pain like that. It’s not often that this situation comes up, but there has been occasion or two that it has. There’s always fun alternatives that don’t include not-fun pain on her end.
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